Reverse Mortgages, Explained
A clearer way to understand the equity you've built.
There is no version of this that should feel like a sales pitch. What follows is the whole mechanism, in order, in plain language — including the parts that work against you.
In Thirty Seconds
The basic idea is simpler than it sounds.
A reverse mortgage does not sell your home, and it does not hand it to a lender. It lets you borrow against value you already own, and it is repaid later — usually when the home is sold.
01
Your home
You own a home that has likely grown in value over the years you have lived in it.
02
The equity you've built
That growth, plus every payment you have already made, is equity — value that belongs to you.
03
Access a portion
A reverse mortgage lets you borrow against part of that equity, as a lump sum, a line of credit, or both.
04
Continue living at home
You stay in the house. You keep the title. No regular principal-and-interest payment is required.
05
Repayment occurs later
The balance is repaid when the home is sold, or when the last borrower permanently leaves it.
You are not selling your home to the lender.
You remain the homeowner, your name stays on the title, and the property stays yours to live in, renovate, or leave to your family.
Your Equity
What equity actually means.
Equity is the part of your home you own outright — its value minus anything still owed against it. For most homeowners this is the largest single number in their financial life, and it is usually the one they have the least day-to-day access to.
Home value
What the home would sell for today
$700,000
Less what is still owed
The remaining balance on the existing mortgage
− $150,000
Equity you own
The portion of the home that is already yours
$550,000
Read This Part Too
$550,000 is your equity. It is not what you would receive.
A reverse mortgage lends against a share of your home's value, not the whole of it. That share depends on your age, current interest rates, the property itself, and what is still owed on it. An older homeowner generally qualifies to access more; a younger one, less.
The only figure that means anything is the one a licensed advisor works out for your actual situation. Everything on this page is here to help you follow that conversation, not to replace it.
No Single Number
There is no one answer to “how much can I access?”
Six things move the figure, and four of them are outside anyone's control. This is why the same house can produce two different numbers for two different homeowners — and why a quote given over the phone before any of this is known should be treated with suspicion.
Your age
The age of the youngest borrower is the single biggest factor. Older homeowners generally qualify to access a larger share of their equity.
Within your control only in the sense that time passes.
Home value
Based on an independent appraisal, not on a tax assessment or an online estimate.
Set by the market.
Existing mortgage
Any remaining balance is typically paid off at closing, which reduces what is left for you.
Partly within your control.
Interest rates
Higher rates reduce how much can be borrowed against the same home at the same age.
Entirely outside your control.
Property eligibility
The home must be your primary residence and meet condition and type requirements. Most single-family homes and many condominiums qualify.
Worth checking early.
Loan structure
How you take the funds — lump sum, credit line, or monthly disbursements — affects the terms and the cost.
Entirely your decision.
The Process
Six steps, and you can stop at any one of them.
Nothing here commits you to anything. Most homeowners we speak with take several weeks between the first conversation and a decision — and a good number decide the answer is no, which we count as a good outcome.
01
A conversation
You tell us about your home, what you are trying to solve, and what you want the next few years to look like. No paperwork, no credit check, no commitment of any kind.
About thirty minutes
02
We review the situation
An advisor looks at your home's value, what is still owed, your age, and the numbers you have given us — and works out what may actually be available to you.
A day or two
03
You understand the options
We walk through what a reverse mortgage would and would not do in your case, in plain terms, including what it would cost and how it would affect what your family inherits.
One or two meetings
04
The required steps
By law, you complete independent counselling with a federally approved counselor before you can proceed. This is not a formality — it exists to protect you, and we will not rush you through it.
Required, at your pace
05
You decide
If it does not fit, we will say so. If it does, you choose how to take the funds and tell us to proceed — or you tell us no, and nothing further happens.
Entirely up to you
06
Closing
You sign at a time and place that suits you. Funds are typically available shortly afterwards, and your existing mortgage is paid off if there is one.
Usually a few weeks
The process begins with understanding — not paperwork.
How Funds Arrive
You choose how the money reaches you.
This is one of the few parts of a reverse mortgage that is entirely under your control, and it is worth thinking about carefully — the structure you pick affects both what you pay and what stays available to you later.
A lump sum
One payment, taken at closing. Simplest to understand, and useful if you have a known cost to meet — paying off a mortgage, a medical expense, or helping family now.
The trade-off: Typically fixed-rate, which means a slightly higher rate than the adjustable options below.
A line of credit
An amount you can draw on whenever you need it, for as long as you live in the home. Undrawn funds generally grow over time, so the amount available to you later can be larger than it is today.
The trade-off: You pay interest only on what you have actually drawn, but the rate is adjustable.
Scheduled disbursements
A set amount arriving on a regular schedule — monthly, quarterly, or annually — for as long as you live in the home. Much like a pension you already own.
The trade-off: Predictable, but inflexible. If a large one-off expense comes up, this structure does not help with it.
A combination
Many homeowners take a lump sum for a specific cost and keep a line of credit for everything else. This is the most common structure we see, and usually the most flexible.
The trade-off: Slightly more to keep track of, and it is worth writing down which pot is which.
Which structures are available to you depends on the lender, the property, and current market conditions. Your advisor will confirm what is actually on offer in your case before you make any decision.
The Point Of All Of It
Every number on this page describes the same house — the one you are sitting in while you read it.
If You Still Have a Mortgage
You do not have to pay it off first.
This is one of the most common misconceptions we hear. Having a remaining mortgage does not disqualify you — the balance is typically settled at closing out of the new loan, and whatever is left over is what comes to you.
Illustrative Example Only
Home value
$700,000
Existing mortgage, paid off at closing
− $125,000
New loan amount
$260,000
Available to you at closing
$135,000
In this example the homeowner has $135,000 available immediately, has cleared their old mortgage entirely, and has no monthly principal-and-interest payment on either loan.
The balance on the reverse mortgage is now $260,000 rather than $135,000 — because the old mortgage was folded into it. That is the honest trade: you gain cash flow and you give up some future equity.
These figures are invented to show how the arithmetic works. They are not a quote, an offer, or a prediction, and your own numbers will differ.
“Does the bank own my home?”
No.
You keep the title. The lender holds a lien — a legal claim against the property until the loan is repaid — which is the same instrument any mortgage lender holds. A lien is not ownership.
What Remains Yours
- The title to your home, in your name
- The right to live there for as long as you do
- The right to sell at any time, for any price you choose
- The right to repay the loan early, in part or in full
- The right to leave the home to your heirs
- Any equity that remains when the loan is repaid
What Remains Your Responsibility
- Property taxes, paid on time
- Homeowner's insurance, kept in force
- Basic upkeep — the home must stay your primary residence and in reasonable condition
- HOA dues, if your home has them
These obligations are not new. They are the same ones that come with owning a home today. If they are not met, the loan can become due — which is the one real risk in this product, and the reason we ask about them early.
Monthly Payments
The payment stops. The interest does not.
This is the trade at the centre of a reverse mortgage, and we would rather you hear it from us plainly than discover it later. Both columns below describe the same borrower on the same home.
A Traditional Mortgage
You pay down the balance every month.
- A fixed payment leaves your account every month
- The balance falls steadily over time
- Your equity grows with every payment
- The loan ends on a known date
- Missing payments puts the home at risk
A Reverse Mortgage
The balance grows quietly instead.
- No monthly principal-and-interest payment is required
- The balance rises as interest accrues
- Your equity may decrease over time
- There is no fixed end date — it comes due on a specific event
- Missing taxes or insurance puts the home at risk
Less monthly payment pressure today can mean a larger loan balance later.
That is not a warning, and it is not a reason to walk away. For some homeowners the monthly relief is worth far more than the equity it costs. For others it is not. The only way to know which one you are is to put your own numbers into it.
How Interest Works
Interest accrues on the balance, and compounds on itself.
Because you are not making payments, the interest is added to what you owe rather than paid off each month. Interest then accrues on that larger balance. This is the mechanism that makes the total grow — and it is worth understanding precisely.
Starting balance
What you borrowed at closing
+ Interest accrued this period
Charged on the balance, not paid
+ Fees and costs
Ongoing servicing and any advances
= Balance owed over time
The figure that matters when the loan is repaid
What We Will Not Do
We will not project this for you.
Any chart showing your balance in fifteen years is built on assumptions about interest rates, home values, and how long you live — and none of those are things anyone can tell you. A forecast like that looks authoritative and is close to meaningless.
What we will do is show you the actual mechanics, run your real numbers at today's rates, and tell you plainly what the balance would be if nothing changed. What happens from there is genuinely uncertain, and you deserve to be told that rather than handed a comforting curve.
Repayment
When the loan comes due.
There is no payment schedule and no balloon date. A reverse mortgage comes due on an event, not a date — and in almost every case that event is one the homeowner chooses, or one that was going to happen anyway.
You sell the home
The loan is repaid from the proceeds at closing, and whatever is left over comes to you. You choose when this happens, and you are free to sell at any price to any buyer.
Your decision
The last borrower permanently leaves
Typically because they have moved into a care facility or a family member's home. If the home is vacant longer than the lender's limit, the loan becomes due — though a spouse who remains in the home is protected.
Sometimes your decision
The last borrower passes away
The estate is given a period — usually six months, extendable — to decide. The heirs can repay the loan and keep the home, sell it and keep any remaining equity, or simply hand the keys back.
Not in anyone's hands
An obligation is not met
Property taxes, homeowner's insurance, or basic maintenance. This is the only event that can be triggered by something going wrong, and it is why we talk about those obligations up front.
Entirely avoidable
The amount owed can never exceed what the home is worth.
This is a defining feature of the loan, not a courtesy. If the home's value falls and the balance would be larger than the sale price, the difference is not passed to you or to your estate — it falls to the lender. Your other assets are not pledged, and your heirs are not personally liable for the shortfall.
What Comes Back To You
Whatever is left is yours.
A reverse mortgage reduces the equity in your home — that is what it costs. It does not consume all of it. When the home is sold, the loan balance and the costs of selling are settled first, and the remainder belongs to you or to your estate.
Sale price
$820,000
Reverse mortgage balance at repayment
− $315,000
Costs of selling
− $45,000
Returned to you or your estate
$460,000
Compare that with the equity this homeowner had at the start. They accessed money they needed while they were alive to use it, and four hundred and sixty thousand dollars still came back to the family.
Whether that is a good trade depends entirely on what the money did for them in the intervening years. That is your judgement to make, not ours.
Illustrative figures again. Real results depend on your home's value, the balance when it is repaid, and the market at the time of sale.
Your Family
Your children will have questions. Bring them.
In our experience, the objection that stops a reverse mortgage is rarely the homeowner's. It is the adult child who has read something alarming, or heard a story from a neighbour, and is worried about their inheritance.
That worry is reasonable, and it deserves a real answer rather than reassurance. We will happily walk through the repayment process, the estate position, and the right of the heirs to keep the home — with your family in the room or on the call.
Will we still inherit the home?
Yes, if that is what the family wants. Your heirs can repay the loan and keep the property, or sell it and take the remaining equity.
Are we personally responsible for the debt?
No. The loan is secured against the home only. If the sale does not cover the balance, the shortfall is not collected from the estate.
How long do we have to decide?
The estate is typically given six months after the borrower's death, and that period can usually be extended.
Does this have to happen now?
No. Nothing is drawn until you decide to proceed, and the decision can be revisited at any point before closing.
What It Costs
A clear decision requires clear costs.
A reverse mortgage is more expensive than a traditional mortgage, and anyone who tells you otherwise is not being straight with you. Here is every fee you will encounter, who is paid, and when it falls due.
| Item | Who is paid | When | Amount |
|---|---|---|---|
| Independent counselling | A federally approved counselling agency | Before closing — required by law | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Origination fee | The lender | At closing | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Third-party closing costs | Appraiser, title company, escrow | At closing | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Initial mortgage insurance premium | Federal housing administration | At closing | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Ongoing mortgage insurance premium | Federal housing administration | Charged on the balance over time | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Servicing fee | The loan servicer | Charged on the balance monthly | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Interest | The lender | Accrues continuously on the balance | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
| Recording and filing fees | County and state agencies | At closing | Quoted in writing before you commit to anything |
Costs vary by lender, by state, and by the size of the loan. Two homeowners with identical homes can be quoted different totals. This is precisely why we give you the full breakdown in writing before you commit to anything — and why we would rather you take a copy away and read it slowly than sign it in the room.
If a figure in your disclosure does not match what you were told verbally, ask us about it before you sign. There is no question about cost that we consider unimportant, and we will not treat one as though there is.
Senior Mortgage Advisors
You've read the mechanism. The next step is your own numbers.
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